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Donna’s Story

 

“Coming to the food bank was just a great relief and nobody judges anybody.”

Care support worker, Donna, saw her life turned upside down when she was hospitalised after suffering from two mini-strokes. Forced to stop working and not eligible for sick pay, the 44-year-old, mother-of-three from Northern Ireland soon began to struggle.

“I was always pretty good on managing and saving. But from not working, the savings were getting very low,” she admits. “Things had to be paid for and I didn’t want the kids to suffer. We had some food in the cupboard and freezer but I knew it was starting to get lower and lower. I wasn’t doing what I should have been doing as a mother.”

Donna knew she had to ask for help. “It was either asking somebody for a lend with money and having that debt and struggle, or going to the food bank. So, I decided I would opt for the food bank.”

“I sat in the car park for about ten minutes getting the courage to go in, but the welcome that I got through the doors was just phenomenal, I felt so at ease. They listened and offered me tea. It was so nice and family-based.”

Although Donna was nervous about going to the food bank, she is thankful they were able to support her through this difficult time. “I sat in the car park for about ten minutes getting the courage to go in, but the welcome that I got through the doors was just phenomenal,” she admits. “I felt so at ease. They listened and offered me tea. It was so nice and family-based.”

As well as providing Donna with food for herself and her children, the food bank was also able to give her information on benefit support she was entitled to claiming, in order to get further help. Donna told us: “I left the food bank with my bags of food and felt very overwhelmed. I was so glad I had come here.”

As soon as Donna’s circumstances had improved she signed up to volunteer at the food bank, explaining: “I wanted to give back as they have brought me out of the biggest situation that I did not think I would get myself into.”

Donna is glad that things are much more balanced now. She enjoys volunteering twice a week and remains grateful for the support she received: “I’m not needing the food bank any more but I’m glad it was there when I needed the help.”

Holly’s Story

“The people at the foodbank were wonderful, they understood and saved us.”

Having always worked and never claimed benefits, Holly, 29, from Chichester was bringing up her four-year-old daughter, Phoebe alone. She was determined to give her the best possible start in life, but when Phoebe suddenly fell ill, Holly was forced to turn to a foodbank for help.

The council flat that Holly was living in was in a deprived area with drug dealing and dog fouling taking place in the corridor outside her door. Holly was adamant that her daughter should have a better environment to grow up in and was offered alternative accommodation near her parents but at double the cost. As well as borrowing money from her parents to meet the cost, Holly was working part time. At the same time, she had been selling second-hand clothes online and the shop she was working in noticed its success and offered her a space selling clothes in their shop.

Under normal circumstances, Holly could just about scrape by, but when her daughter became poorly and had to spend three weeks in hospital, she was forced to close the shop temporarily. When Phoebe recovered, they returned home to empty kitchen cupboards, bills racking up and no income to support them.

Holly felt unable to ask her family for help again and after discussions with the local Citizens Advice Bureau she was referred to the foodbank.

Holly said: “The people at the foodbank were wonderful, they understood and saved us.”

Although Holly’s situation is still precarious, knowing the foodbank is there in an emergency is a huge weight off her shoulders.

 

 

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